उसको एक कमजोरी नै केटी थियो । नदेखेको तर सुनेको कुरा के भने, उसले आफ्नै टोलको एकजनालाई समेत यौन साथी वनाएको थियो । खासमा उनीहरुको मन मिल्दो हो । तर, त्यो कुरा त्यस टोलका धेरैलाई थाहा भएपछि घरमा भनिदिने वा यस्तै धम्कीले उसको भाई नाता पर्ने देखि छिमेकी केटाहरु सम्मले उनलाई यौन उत्पिडन गरे । घरमा पालिएको वस्तुभाउ चराउन जानेनाममा उनीहरु यस्तो गर्ने गरेको आम हल्ला थियो । पछी उनले सानै उमेरमा विवाह गरिन र त्यो घरका परिवारले समेत त्यो टोल छाडे ।
म लामो समय विदेशमा वस्दा उसले सोध्ने प्रश्न हुन्थ्यो कति गरिस् त? यहाँ गरिसको मतलव, कति वेस्या गमन गरिस वा यौन कृयाकलापमा संलग्न भईस् भन्ने हो । अनि प्रायःजसो सोधिने अर्काे प्रश्न हुन्थ्यो केटी पठा न, म वस्ने र खाने व्यवस्था मिलाउँछु । मलाई अति असहजिलो लाग्ने यस्ता कुरा ऊ सहजै विना हिचकिचाहट मात्र होईन डाईरेक्टली सोद्दथ्यो । मैले धेरै पटक झोक्किएर उसलाई, साले म यहाँ त्यै केटी खोज्न आएको हो ? लाज लाग्दैन ? भनेर धेरै पटक भने । तर पनि ऊ अर्काे पटकको कुराकानीमा पट्यार लाग्ने गरेर केटी पठा न यार भन्न छोड्दैन थियो । मैले म तेरो श्रीमतीलाई भनि दिन्छु भने पछि धेरै पछि उसले यो छोड्यो ।
सानो हुँदा मेला हेरेर फर्कदा म उसँग सँगै थिए । समय अलि अध्याँरो-अध्याँरो थियो । उसले एक हुल १६-१७ वर्षको गाउँवाट मेला हेर्न आएका केटीहरुको देख्यो, उ चाँही १२-१३ वर्षको हुँदो हो । त्यो हुलको विचमा गएर कुनै रेन्डम केटीको छाती समाएर भाग्यो । केटिहरु तथानाम गालिगर्न थाले । म पनि त्यसको साथीहो भन्ने थाहा पाए, मलाई नी मार्छन्, त्यो भन्दा पनि मेरो त्यो ठाँउका मान्छेले थाहा पाए वेज्जत हुन्छ भन्ने सोचेर म पनि भागे । अनि जीन्दगीमा कहिल्यौ त्यस्तो मेलामा ऊ संग हिडिन । सकेसम्म वहाना वनाउन र भाग्ने वाटो खोज्ने गर्न थाले र कहिल्यै जानु पनि परेन । त्यो दिन सम्झेर आजपनि मेरो मन चिसो हुन्छ ।
उसमा एक प्रकारको सानोमा एक सुपीरिओरिटी काँम्प्लेक्स थियो । उसले अलि सोझो र उमेरमा १-२ वर्ष कम भएका लाई सारै हेप्ने गर्दथ्यो । कतिलाईत श्रीमति होस् भन्ने गर्नथ्यो । हाम्रो वस्तीमा मान्छेहरु वसाई सरेर गएकाले त्यहाँका धेरै घरहरु खाली थिए त्यस मध्ये उसका नातेदारहरुका घरहरु पनि थिए । ती घरहरुमा उसले एक कोठा वनाएको हुन्थ्यो र साथीहरुलाई वोलाउँदथ्यो । साँच्चिकै अनैतिक कार्य चाही गर्दैनथ्यो तर खुट्टाले च्याप्ने, अंगालो मार्ने र त मेरो वुढीहोस् भन्ने जस्तो कृयाकलाप गर्दथ्यो । उसको कृयाकलाप वाट यो अनुमान लागाउन सकिन्थ्यो की उ चाहन्थ्यो, उसलाई सवैले सुपरियर मानुन् । केही वर्ष अघी म अमेरिका जाँदा उसले मलाई ईण्टरनेटवाट कल गरेको थियो र त्यही रहेको एक अर्काे हाम्रो केटा साथीलाई तेरो लोग्नेले सोधेको छ भनिदिनु है भन्दै थियो ।
साथीभाईकै अगाडि पनि कट्टु भित्र हात हाली राख्ने उसको वानी थियो । एकदिन मैले यस्तो किन गर्छस् भनेर सोधे । उसले तलाई के को मतलव भनेर जवाफ साथै २-४ वटा गाली समेत जोडेर फर्कायो ।
धेरै मान्छे वेस्या गमन गरे पनि भन्न चाँही डराउँछन्, तर उसलाई वेस्या गमन गरे भनेर भन्न गर्व महसुस् हुन्थ्यो । अझ १५-२० वर्ष अगाडि त पाईन्ट लगाउने भनेपछि उसले एकदम मोडर्न सम्झिन्थ्यो र आज म पाईन्ट लगाउने भालु (वेस्या)को मा गएको भनेर गर्वका साथ सुनाउँदथ्यो । मलाई चाँही त्यती विश्वास लाग्दैन थियो ।
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I created it for photoblogging, but I have no time for photography. So, I decided to use it as a daily diary. Sorry.
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
डरलाग्ने एक स्कमव्याग साथीको कथा ...
Monday, December 24, 2018
एक उद्ददण्ड स्कमव्याग --साथी??को कथा
मलाई सधै ए वाहुन भनेर वोलाउने । मलाई उसले कहिले पनि नामले वोलाएको याद छैन । ठुलो भएपछि भने उसले गुरु, वाजे, नामको अघिल्लो दुई अक्षरमा ऐ जोडर वा यस्तै केही कम चित्त दुख्ने शव्दले वोलाउन थाल्यो ।तर म उसलाई उसकै नामले वोलाऊँथे । उसलाई कसैले उसको जातले वोलाई दियो भने त त्यसको उठीवास नै लाग्ने । ऊ मलाई मात्र हैन अरुलाई पनि त्यस्तै जात वा निकनेमले वोलाउँथ्यो । निकनेमहरु प्रायः व्यक्तिको सारिरिक वनावट, प्राकृतिक चोट पटक, उसको वारिवारिक परिवेस, आर्थिक अवस्था वा यस्तै वाट राखिएको हुन्थ्यो र सुन्दा कतिपय मान्छे हाँसे पनि जसलाई दिइएको हो उसलाई चाँही सायद सारै पिडा पुग्ने खालको हुन्थ्यो । उसको निकनेम नभएको पनि होईन, तर उसलाई वोलाउन हैन । उ नभएको वेला सम्वोधन गर्न प्रयोग हुने निकनेम थियो उस्को । उसको सारिरिक वनाओट सानो खाले थियो, त्यसैवाट उसको निकनेम राखिएको थियो ।
मेरो घर ठूलो वगैचाको विचमा थियो जसमा धेरै चुकका रुखहरु थिए, अमिलो, नारंगी, ज्यामिर आदि । त्यसैकारणले मेरो नाम चुके भनेर राखेको थियो । मेरो जुंडी अर्थात टुप्पी थियो । मलाई या त ऊ टुप्पी वा चुके वाहुन भनेर सम्वोधन गर्दथ्यो । उसले अरुलाई पनि त्यस्तै नामले वोलाओस् भन्ने चाहन्थ्यो ।
उसका परिवारमा प्रायः सवै सोवर, सरल र सहज मिजासका थिए । तर ऊ चाँही उद्ददण्ड थियो । यति धेरै उद्ददण्डकी एकपटक उसले उसको आफन्तको टेप रिकर्डरमा खोलेर तेल हाली दियो । टेप रिकर्डर विग्रीयो, अनि उ भागेर एक नातेदारको घरमा गयो । उसको घर सदर मुकाममा थियो । उसको वुवा जागिरे, आमा आफ्नै घरमा पसल गर्ने र मामाको छुट्टै पसल । नातेदारले खोजेर ल्याए र कालो मोसो दलेर आफ्नो पसलमा वाधेर राखे । ऊ ४० वर्षको पुग्दा पनि बच्चा हुँदाको त्यो कुरा प्रति उसले प्रश्चितः गर्नु भन्दा पनि ति आफन्तलाई एक दिन देखाईदिने कुरा गर्दथ्यो ।
उसको कुरामा कसैले सहमती नजनाएत उसले डसौला झै गर्ने । एकपटक हामी ढुंगे धारावाट नुहाएर आऊदै थियौ । ढुंगेधारा जान २० मिनेट जती ओरालो हिड्नु पर्ने । हामी सानो हुँदा सनिवारको दिन साथी वा परिवार संग ढुंगे धारामा नुहाउन जाने चलन थियो । उसले वदाम ल्याएको रहेछ र २ वटा कोसा मलाई दियो । एक वटा मा २ दाना जती । उकालो चढ्दै गर्दा खाईसके पछि, उसले यो वदाम नभएको भए काँ यति चढ्न सकिन्थ्यो हैन भनत? भनेर सोध्यो । मैले झट्ट यति वदामले त के हुन्थ्यो भनेको त उसले मलाई साला वाहुन, कुरा काट्छस् भनेर तथानाम गाली ग-यो । म अक्कन वक्क भए । अव त्यो २ वटा वदाम खाएर ३० मिनेट जती उकालो वाटो कसरी हिडिएको हो भन्नु ।
यसको अन्य अंश
किन साथी भै राखेको त? वाँच्नलाई ।
वालुवाको पैसा उठाउने र ए क्लासको ठेकेदार
भुकम्प र त्रिपाल
मेरो विकासमा उसको ईन्टरफेरेन्सः भलिवल ।
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Sunday, May 17, 2015
CFP: IJDSN - Special Issue (SCIE Indexed), Deadline: Friday, 10 July 2015
Applications of Cognitive Radio Networks: Recent Advances and Future Directions
Call for Papers
- Novel applications of CRNs
- Cognitive radio for emergency and public safety applications
- Cognitive radio applications in healthcare
- Learning techniques and strategies in CRNs
- Cognitive radio in cloud computing
- Application of cognitive radio wireless sensor networks
- Performance analysis of a wireless sensor network-aided cognitive radio system
- Node mobility issue in CRNs
- Multioperator spectrum management for specific application
- Business models for opportunistic spectrum access
- Commercialization of CRNs and their applications
- Standardization of CRNs and their applications
- Regulatory aspects of CRNs and their applications
- Green cognitive radio networks
| Manuscript Due | Friday, 10 July 2015 |
| First Round of Reviews | Friday, 2 October 2015 |
| Publication Date | Friday, 27 November 2015 |
Lead Guest Editor
- Sung W. Kim, Yeungnam University, North Gyeongsang, Republic of Korea
Guest Editors
- Miao Pan, Texas Southern University, Texas, USA
- Gyanendra P. Joshi, Yeungnam University, North Gyeongsang, Republic of Korea
- Orhan Gazi, Cankaya University, Ankara, Turkey
- Jianhua He, Aston University, Birmingham, UK
- Marceau Coupechoux, Telecom ParisTech, Paris, France
Friday, March 6, 2015
रोनाष्टका वाल वैज्ञानीक
मेरो त योग्यता पुग्दै पुगेन
४६ सालमा म हाईस्कूलमा पढ्थे, सरले अराजक तत्व भनिनेहरुले आन्दोलन वखेडा गरिराछन् भन्नुभाथ्यो,
जिप्रकाको गेट सम्म त गएकै हो, तर पुलिसले मलाई थुन्दै थुनेन ।
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Friday, January 16, 2015
Wednesday, January 7, 2015
Six Healthy Behaviors that Can Help Women from Heart Attack
An article published in the Journal of the American College of Cardiology identified six lifestyle important for heart health. - not smoking,
- having a normal BMI,
- getting at least 2.5 hours of exercise each week,
- watching television seven or fewer hours a week,
- having a healthy diet, and
- limiting alcohol to a drink or less per day.
Friday, October 31, 2014
Wednesday, October 22, 2014
Lunch to dinner Korean and Nepali food
दशैको मन्त्र
आयू द्रोणसुते श्रीयो दशरथे शत्रुक्षयं राघवे।
ऐश्वर्यं नहुषे गतिश्च पवने मानञ्च दुर्योधने।
दानं सूर्यसुते बलं हलधरे सत्यञ्च कुन्तीसुते।
विज्ञानं विदुरे भवन्तु भवतां कीर्तिश्च नारायणे॥
द्रोणपुत्र अस्वत्थामाको जस्तो दीर्घायु, दशरथ राजाको जस्तो श्रीसम्पत्ति प्राप्त होस्, भगवान् रामको जस्तो शत्रु नाश हुन्, नहुष राजाको जस्तो ऐश्वर्य, पवनसुत हनुमानको जस्तो गतिशीलता, दुर्याेधनको जस्तो मान, सूर्यपुत्र कर्णको जस्तो दानवीरता, हलधर बलरामको जस्तो बल, कुन्तीपुत्र युधिष्ठिरको जस्तो सत्यवादिता, विदुरको जस्तो ज्ञान र भगवान् नारायणको जस्तो कीर्ति तपाईंलाई प्राप्त होस् ; हैप्पी बिजया दशमी !
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Strange question by students about reading scientific papers
Tuesday, February 18, 2014
How to print Nepali MRP application form correctly?
Tuesday, April 2, 2013
Bye bye Gyeongsan per-school (경산 유치원) – So many complains.
Finally, I changed my son’s school.
Yesterday, finally I took my son back to 어린이 칩 (early child education, play group). I was exhausted listening complains about my son every day by his class teachers through my wife. They complain almost every day. He is just 3 years old (born in late 2009). He used to go school at around 10 o’clock and comeback around 6. Yes, he is slightly active, but listens to the elders. He understands Korean.
Why they used to complain? Here is the reason. According to the school principal one child who came with him after graduating from the same play group, told her mother for some unknown reason that she will not go to the same kindergarten with my son. Her mother called school and ask to the principal of the kindergarten whether my son is in the same class. Once, she knew that my son and her daughter is in the same class she took her daughter to another school. (However, when my wife called that lady for apologies, if she really took her daughter because of my son, she said, that’s not the reason at all. She said, because the number of students in the new school is less she admitted her in that school.)
After this incident, the principal and the class teachers were after my son. Complains were like, he throws toys/chopsticks, he doesn’t know how to use chopsticks, he beats other fellows or sometimes the teacher, he is depressed, and so on. Many times they suggested to give more time to him. In fact, his mother takes care of him after 6 pm to the next morning. I also take him to the playground and for outing timely.
Actually, my wife is a graduate student. She has to work in the lab. Most of the students spend their most of the time in the lab, so she also wanted to be in the lab until 6 pm. But our son’s school asked the department whether there is any class after 5 pm. Yes, officially there may not be any class after 5 pm, but she has a class until 9 pm. Some professor, they change time unofficially. The school wanted to get the stamped document from the school. They also called my son’s previous school and enquire about his behavior.
I wanted to send him in the 유치원 (pre-school) desperately because he used to say, I have already graduated the 어린이 칩 and now I wanna go to 유치원 in Korean (어린이칩 졸업했짢아, 이제 유치원 갈레).
I selected this pre-school because it’s near by my house. But, because they complained so much, finally I changed his school. Now, he is back to the 어린이 칩 again. Anyways, he is happy there. The owner/principal speaks in English, which is a great advantage to my wife. Also, she seems kind and generous. The principal’s son and daughter also study in the same 어린이 칩. They have small playground and whole building used as a 어린이 칩. New 어린이 칩’s van comes in the morning and evening. I asked whether he liked the school, he said that’s fine.
Hope he’ll enjoy his entire year there!!
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Monday, February 4, 2013
A bad memory of hometown...
Once my brother said - Sometimes even dog's attitude is better than humanbeings, because dog barks on unknowns but human on his own known people.
I am writing this about my bitter experience while I visited my hometown. Some people do not want to see the progress of this own colleagues. I visited my hometown after 4 years and half. I called many of my friends for casual drink. Since I visited my hometown after so long time and I visited few of my friends after 8-9 years, I was excited to listen about their progress and even talk about my own progress.
In the first round the situation was very nice and calm. Everyone was busy on telling his own story, we all happy to listen and share the stories. But, after sometime, some of our friends left and new friends joined. When I got a chance to talk, I gave my business card to the late comers. When I gave my card, one of my friends also gave his business card to new comers. I was expecting congratulation or some inspirational words from the friends. Unexpectedly, one friend in the table started yelling and started using abusive words. He said two f***ers wanna show off that they are successful. He was not much drunk. I did not understand his intention. It's general custom to share phone number and email address giving cards. What was his problem, I didn't understand. I am still thinking, what's his problem.
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Wednesday, July 25, 2012
A tour to Yeosu (여수) and Namhae (남해).
A great culture here in Korea, I like the most, is MT (엠티) in the universities/works/communities/clubs etc. The full form of MT is membership training. Most probably, this is the old culture here to go to MT to become closer to the members in universities' labs/works/communities/clubs. I have been participating in MT every year since I came to Korea. It’s already straight eighth consecutive year.
Big O show (Main attraction of Yeosu Expo 2012)
This month, we have been to Yeosu, where an ambitious expo is going on. It’s a good place to visit.

It’s very small area southern part of Korea mainland. This time, we went through Namhae, which is very close to Yeosu. Our intention was to visit both places. So, we went to Name first and went to Yeosu by small cruse.




This is all this year’s MT.
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Sunday, January 1, 2012
End of one journey and start of another...
Today is the final day to submit graduate thesis in the graduate office. After submitting this, the formalities of all the graduation is finished. I need to wait to get convocation day to get the degree. I am really happy that I have finished the student life. Actually, it is not the end of student life, but it is the starting point of another learning period, which is as same as student life. There are also several exams and fear to fail, joy to pass, and many occasions of happy and sad.
I met a MS student (정정은), who was really happy after submitting his graduate thesis. Then, I realized that Oh, I have also finished my study today!! Because of the similar workload as before, I didn't actually realized before. Many things are going simultaneously. I need to submit a journal paper after revision, one paper is accepted the day before yesterday, need to revise and submit camera ready version. We are organizing a special session, I need to manage everything, from CFP to paper allocation to the reviewers and result. I have to prepare a paper for the conference as well. Because of all these work load, I felt the same as it was before. Not only that, I have additional work loads now. I have to prepare for the next semester's classes. I have to help my wife with the baby, she wants to study.
Anyways, there is a kind of excitement inside me. I am waiting for the convocation day. My mom is coming, she was also desperately waiting for my graduation. She might have prey her god countless times, wishing my successful graduation. Also, my wish to be with her and to show her the place I lived more than 8 years, may come true at that time. My father in heaven may be happy seeing this from the heaven. My family members already wished me congratulations.
I need to send an email to everybody, who have helped me in this journey. Many people contributed. It was a very very long journey, almost impossible without the help of those kind people. Some helped financially, some morally. Although, those are the irreplaceable contributions, I cannot forget their contributions in entire my life. Nevertheless, I cannot write all the people here, however, some of the great contributors in my life are Late Shree Gopal Prasad Joshi, Ms. Dhan Kumari Joshi, Ms. Dibeshwori Joshi, Ms. Bisheshwori Upreti, Mr. Rabindranath Banarji, Mr. Naveen Shrestha, Mr. Sachchidananda Joshi, Mr. Chandra Prasad Joshi (uncle), Mr. Luxman Giri, Mr. Sambhu Rai, Mr. Prem Raj Joshi, Ms. Pratima Joshi, Mr. Ganesh Prasad Joshi, Ms. Srijana Joshi, Madhusudan Joshi, Janardan joshi, Sheela Upreti, Hari Prasad Joshi, I don't remember the name, but two persons (one is the owner of the restaurant and another is a owner of the electronic repair center) from Gatter Kailash, Jamrudpur, Delhi, India. Some inspirers are Mr. Shankar Chaudhary, Mr. Tek Raj Ojha, Mr. Luxman Giri, Prof. Sasidhar Ram Joshi, Ms. Gita Joshi (Bhandari), Mr. Janak Raj Pant, Korea Research Foundetion (KRF), ITSP (IT Scholarship Program) by IITA, Mr. Gopal Tandukar, Mr. Surj Man Singh, Prof. CW Lee, Prof. SW Kim, nec (Nepal Engineering College), KDBC, KEC, MFCI, then Deparment of Land Revenue, Ministry of Land Information and Communication, LISP, Rajendra Rajopadhaya, MCRPEC University, Ajou University, Yeungnam University, LBEF, Chirayu Joshi, friends and family members...
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Monday, October 3, 2011
eLong: An example of a good professionalism in the customer service!!
I traveled to China last month, 2011-9-22 ~ 2011-9-27. I booked a room via eLong. One of my Chinese friends recommended this site to me to book the room. Since, I was traveling to small city (NOT really small though, but not like Beijing or Shanghai either), I prepared everything from map from airport to the hotel.
One PhD student who was also came to attend the same conference WiCOM 2011, helped me to get the hotel. When I arrived at hotel counter, the receptionist told me that they didn't get any email (or booking information) from eLong. Since, they couldn't speak in English, it was really hard time to communicate with them. Anyhow I contacted my friend in another city and he talked with the ladies in the hotel. They provided me another room.
After I get into my room, I wrote a complain to eLong customer service. They prompt reply me. They also tried to contact me via. phone, however the phone in the room was broken. So, I couldn't contact via. phone.
After several email, they told me that they gonna reimburse the amount I paid more for the room. Actually, I booked the hotel 2 months before through eLong.com and got the room in discount rate. I paid 198 CNY, but I have booked in 138 CNY.
I gave my friend's a/c number in China to get the money. They send the money after few days.
I don't know, what's there problem and why can't they provide the room when I arrived on time in the hotel. But, I appreciate the professionalism they showed.
They promptly took action, they email reply was really quick and even they called hotel management and me (although, I couldn't received the call).
I wrote this appreciation letter to eLong.com
Hi eLong!!
I received the reimbursed amount 240CNY.
I found a good professionalism in the customer service that I admire and respect.
I was really pleased with the very quick customer service.
I'll certainly recommend eLong to my colleagues and friends.
Good luck with the future of your company.
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Wednesday, September 7, 2011
Some great inspirational quotes!!
Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one. - Charles J. Sykes (sometimes incorrectly attributed to Bill Gates)
"He who asks is a fool for five minutes, but he who does not ask remains a fool forever." -Unknown.
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Monday, February 28, 2011
Positive thinking increases longevity.
If you type the above line in Google, you can see 1000s of article about it. Coz. people wanna live longer, healthier, and happier. Both of these things come from positive thinking. There are many researches reports and books about this.
Sometimes I feel that I am not a positive thinker. I don't know why, I see the negative aspect of the matter first. I wanna change my attitude and behavior. So, I am planning to search a good book about positive thinking. Although, I read few books, not exactly the title 'positive thinking', but books like 'How to make people like you in 90 seconds or less', 'How to win friends and influence people', 'You can win' etc.
Let's work out for the positive changes in negative thinking.
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Tuesday, February 22, 2011
A news found while sharching something...
Photo with president of Yeungnam University.
http://www.yu.ac.kr/_korean/about/index.php?c=about_01_c_read&seq=117&page=7
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