डरलाग्ने एक स्कमव्याग साथीको कथा ...

उसको एक कमजोरी नै केटी थियो । नदेखेको तर सुनेको कुरा के भने, उसले आफ्नै टोलको एकजनालाई समेत यौन साथी वनाएको थियो । खासमा उनीहरुको मन मिल्दो हो । तर, त्यो कुरा त्यस टोलका धेरैलाई थाहा भएपछि घरमा भनिदिने वा यस्तै धम्कीले उसको भाई नाता पर्ने देखि छिमेकी केटाहरु सम्मले उनलाई यौन उत्पिडन गरे । घरमा पालिएको वस्तुभाउ चराउन जानेनाममा उनीहरु यस्तो गर्ने गरेको आम हल्ला थियो । पछी उनले सानै उमेरमा विवाह गरिन र त्यो घरका परिवारले समेत त्यो टोल छाडे ।
म लामो समय विदेशमा वस्दा उसले सोध्ने प्रश्न हुन्थ्यो कति गरिस् त? यहाँ गरिसको मतलव, कति वेस्या गमन गरिस वा  यौन कृयाकलापमा संलग्न भईस् भन्ने हो । अनि प्रायःजसो सोधिने अर्काे प्रश्न हुन्थ्यो केटी पठा न, म वस्ने र खाने व्यवस्था मिलाउँछु । मलाई अति असहजिलो लाग्ने यस्ता कुरा ऊ सहजै विना हिचकिचाहट मात्र होईन डाईरेक्टली सोद्दथ्यो । मैले धेरै पटक झोक्किएर उसलाई, साले म यहाँ त्यै केटी खोज्न आएको हो ? लाज लाग्दैन ? भनेर धेरै पटक भने । तर पनि ऊ अर्काे पटकको कुराकानीमा पट्यार लाग्ने गरेर केटी पठा न यार भन्न छोड्दैन थियो । मैले म तेरो श्रीमतीलाई भनि दिन्छु भने पछि धेरै पछि उसले यो छोड्यो ।
सानो हुँदा मेला हेरेर फर्कदा म उसँग सँगै थिए । समय अलि अध्याँरो-अध्याँरो थियो । उसले एक हुल १६-१७ वर्षको गाउँवाट मेला हेर्न आएका केटीहरुको देख्यो, उ चाँही १२-१३ वर्षको हुँदो हो । त्यो हुलको विचमा गएर कुनै रेन्डम केटीको छाती समाएर भाग्यो । केटिहरु तथानाम गालिगर्न थाले । म पनि त्यसको साथीहो भन्ने थाहा पाए, मलाई नी मार्छन्, त्यो भन्दा पनि मेरो त्यो ठाँउका मान्छेले थाहा पाए वेज्जत हुन्छ भन्ने सोचेर म पनि भागे । अनि जीन्दगीमा कहिल्यौ त्यस्तो मेलामा ऊ संग हिडिन । सकेसम्म वहाना वनाउन र भाग्ने वाटो खोज्ने गर्न थाले र कहिल्यै जानु पनि परेन । त्यो दिन सम्झेर आजपनि मेरो मन चिसो हुन्छ ।
उसमा एक प्रकारको सानोमा एक सुपीरिओरिटी काँम्प्लेक्स थियो । उसले अलि सोझो र उमेरमा १-२ वर्ष कम भएका लाई सारै हेप्ने गर्दथ्यो । कतिलाईत श्रीमति होस् भन्ने गर्नथ्यो ।  हाम्रो वस्तीमा मान्छेहरु वसाई सरेर गएकाले त्यहाँका धेरै घरहरु खाली थिए त्यस मध्ये उसका नातेदारहरुका घरहरु पनि थिए । ती घरहरुमा उसले एक कोठा वनाएको हुन्थ्यो र साथीहरुलाई वोलाउँदथ्यो । साँच्चिकै अनैतिक कार्य चाही गर्दैनथ्यो तर खुट्टाले च्याप्ने, अंगालो मार्ने र त मेरो वुढीहोस् भन्ने जस्तो कृयाकलाप गर्दथ्यो । उसको कृयाकलाप वाट यो अनुमान लागाउन सकिन्थ्यो की उ चाहन्थ्यो, उसलाई सवैले सुपरियर मानुन् । केही वर्ष अघी म अमेरिका जाँदा उसले मलाई ईण्टरनेटवाट कल गरेको थियो र त्यही रहेको एक अर्काे हाम्रो केटा साथीलाई तेरो लोग्नेले सोधेको छ भनिदिनु है भन्दै थियो ।
साथीभाईकै अगाडि पनि कट्टु भित्र हात हाली राख्ने उसको वानी थियो । एकदिन मैले यस्तो किन गर्छस् भनेर सोधे । उसले तलाई के को मतलव भनेर जवाफ साथै २-४ वटा गाली समेत जोडेर फर्कायो ।
धेरै मान्छे वेस्या गमन गरे पनि भन्न चाँही डराउँछन्, तर उसलाई वेस्या गमन गरे भनेर भन्न गर्व महसुस् हुन्थ्यो । अझ १५-२० वर्ष अगाडि त पाईन्ट लगाउने भनेपछि उसले एकदम मोडर्न सम्झिन्थ्यो र आज म पाईन्ट लगाउने भालु (वेस्या)को मा गएको भनेर गर्वका साथ सुनाउँदथ्यो । मलाई चाँही त्यती विश्वास लाग्दैन थियो ।
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एक उद्ददण्ड स्कमव्याग --साथी??को कथा

मलाई सधै ए वाहुन भनेर वोलाउने । मलाई उसले कहिले पनि नामले वोलाएको याद छैन । ठुलो भएपछि भने उसले गुरु, वाजे, नामको अघिल्लो दुई अक्षरमा ऐ जोडर वा यस्तै केही कम चित्त दुख्ने शव्दले वोलाउन थाल्यो ।तर म उसलाई उसकै नामले वोलाऊँथे । उसलाई कसैले उसको जातले वोलाई दियो भने त त्यसको उठीवास नै लाग्ने । ऊ मलाई मात्र हैन अरुलाई पनि त्यस्तै जात वा निकनेमले वोलाउँथ्यो । निकनेमहरु प्रायः व्यक्तिको सारिरिक वनावट, प्राकृतिक चोट पटक, उसको वारिवारिक परिवेस, आर्थिक अवस्था वा यस्तै वाट राखिएको हुन्थ्यो र सुन्दा कतिपय मान्छे हाँसे पनि जसलाई दिइएको हो उसलाई चाँही सायद सारै पिडा पुग्ने खालको हुन्थ्यो । उसको निकनेम नभएको पनि होईन, तर उसलाई वोलाउन हैन । उ नभएको वेला सम्वोधन गर्न प्रयोग हुने निकनेम थियो उस्को । उसको सारिरिक वनाओट सानो खाले थियो, त्यसैवाट उसको निकनेम राखिएको थियो ।
मेरो घर ठूलो वगैचाको विचमा थियो जसमा धेरै चुकका रुखहरु थिए,  अमिलो, नारंगी, ज्यामिर आदि । त्यसैकारणले मेरो नाम चुके भनेर राखेको थियो । मेरो जुंडी अर्थात टुप्पी थियो । मलाई या त ऊ टुप्पी वा चुके वाहुन भनेर सम्वोधन गर्दथ्यो । उसले अरुलाई पनि त्यस्तै नामले वोलाओस् भन्ने चाहन्थ्यो ।
उसका परिवारमा प्रायः सवै सोवर, सरल र सहज मिजासका थिए । तर ऊ चाँही उद्ददण्ड थियो । यति धेरै उद्ददण्डकी एकपटक उसले उसको आफन्तको टेप रिकर्डरमा खोलेर तेल हाली दियो । टेप रिकर्डर विग्रीयो, अनि उ भागेर एक नातेदारको घरमा गयो । उसको घर सदर मुकाममा थियो । उसको वुवा जागिरे, आमा आफ्नै घरमा पसल गर्ने र मामाको छुट्टै पसल । नातेदारले खोजेर ल्याए र कालो मोसो दलेर आफ्नो पसलमा वाधेर राखे । ऊ ४० वर्षको पुग्दा पनि बच्चा हुँदाको त्यो कुरा प्रति उसले प्रश्चितः गर्नु भन्दा पनि ति आफन्तलाई एक दिन देखाईदिने कुरा गर्दथ्यो ।
उसको कुरामा कसैले सहमती नजनाएत उसले डसौला झै गर्ने । एकपटक हामी ढुंगे धारावाट नुहाएर आऊदै थियौ । ढुंगेधारा जान २० मिनेट जती ओरालो हिड्नु पर्ने । हामी सानो हुँदा सनिवारको दिन साथी वा परिवार संग ढुंगे धारामा नुहाउन जाने चलन थियो । उसले वदाम ल्याएको रहेछ र २ वटा कोसा मलाई दियो । एक वटा मा २ दाना जती । उकालो चढ्दै गर्दा खाईसके पछि, उसले यो वदाम नभएको भए काँ यति चढ्न सकिन्थ्यो हैन भनत? भनेर सोध्यो । मैले झट्ट यति वदामले त के हुन्थ्यो भनेको त उसले मलाई साला वाहुन, कुरा काट्छस् भनेर तथानाम गाली ग-यो । म अक्कन वक्क भए । अव त्यो २ वटा वदाम खाएर ३० मिनेट जती उकालो वाटो कसरी हिडिएको हो भन्नु ।

यसको अन्य अंश
किन साथी भै राखेको त? वाँच्नलाई ।
वालुवाको पैसा उठाउने र ए क्लासको ठेकेदार
भुकम्प र त्रिपाल
मेरो विकासमा उसको ईन्टरफेरेन्सः भलिवल ।
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रोनाष्टका वाल वैज्ञानीक

एक पटक एक जना पुन थरका पाईलट (मन्त्री) ज्यूले एक जना वालकले काठको हेलीकप्टर वनाएको देखेपछी उनलाई हेलीकप्टर वाट काठमाण्डौ ल्याएर तत्कालिन रोनाष्ट वाट वाल वैज्ञानीक भन्ने उपाधी दिन लगाए । उनलाई पढाईने आदि ईत्यादी कुरा भए । पछी उनले आठ कक्षा सम्म पढे । मैले उनको अन्तरवार्ता पढे अनुसार, उनलाई गुहेश्वरी (सरकारी) स्कूल, सिनामंगलमा भर्ना गरिदिएकोले पढ्न छोडेको रे ।

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मेरो त योग्यता पुग्दै पुगेन

४६ सालमा म हाईस्कूलमा पढ्थे, सरले अराजक तत्व भनिनेहरुले आन्दोलन वखेडा गरिराछन् भन्नुभाथ्यो,
जिप्रकाको गेट सम्म त गएकै हो, तर पुलिसले मलाई थुन्दै थुनेन ।

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Think positive! We can't live a positive life with a negative mind. Nepali MRP follow up.

Last couple of days, following piece of shit is very popular among Nepalese in Korea in social networks.

Because, I have visited Nepalese embassy in Korea few weeks ago. Coincidentally, after I wrote my last blog related to MRP for Nepalese. As my experience, I am writing here for those, who wants to know. 

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Where to publish your research paper?

One of my nephews called me and asked me about the particular journal. I checked the journal website. They announced their IF is around 2, but the journal was started just few months before.

I have also read several inquiries on comments about IF of some journals in many blogs, webs, among others   (for instance, check here). Specially, these questions are raised by the young Indian students.

There are several questions similar to this question: Does impact factors (IF) really matter?

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Bye bye Gyeongsan per-school (경산 유치원) – So many complains.

Finally, I changed my son’s school.
Yesterday, finally I took my son back to 어린이 칩 (early child education, play group). I was exhausted listening complains about my son every day by his class teachers through my wife. They complain almost every day. He is just 3 years old (born in late 2009). He used to go school at around 10 o’clock and comeback around 6. Yes, he is slightly active, but listens to the elders. He understands Korean.  

Why they used to complain? Here is the reason. According to the school principal one child who came with him after graduating from the same play group, told her mother for some unknown reason that she will not go to the same kindergarten with my son. Her mother called school and ask to the principal of the kindergarten whether my son is in the same class. Once, she knew that my son and her daughter is in the same class she took her daughter to another school. (However, when my wife called that lady for apologies, if she really took her daughter because of my son, she said, that’s not the reason at all. She said, because the number of students in the new school is less she admitted her in that school.)

After this incident, the principal and the class teachers were after my son. Complains were like, he throws toys/chopsticks, he doesn’t know how to use chopsticks, he beats other fellows or sometimes the teacher, he is depressed, and so on. Many times they suggested to give more time to him. In fact, his mother takes care of him after 6 pm to the next morning. I also take him to the playground and for outing timely.

Actually, my wife is a graduate student. She has to work in the lab. Most of the students spend their most of the time in the lab, so she also wanted to be in the lab until 6 pm. But our son’s school asked the department whether there is any class after 5 pm. Yes, officially there may not be any class after 5 pm, but she has a class until 9 pm. Some professor, they change time unofficially. The school wanted to get the stamped document from the school. They also called my son’s previous school and enquire about his behavior.

I wanted to send him in the 유치원 (pre-school) desperately because he used to say, I have already graduated the 어린이 칩 and now I wanna go to 유치원 in Korean (어린이칩 졸업했짢아, 이제 유치원 갈레).

I selected this pre-school because it’s near by my house. But, because they complained so much, finally I changed his school. Now, he is back to the 어린이 칩 again. Anyways, he is happy there. The owner/principal speaks in English, which is a great advantage to my wife. Also, she seems kind and generous. The principal’s son and daughter also study in the same 어린이 칩. They have small playground and whole building used as a 어린이 칩. New 어린이 칩’s van comes in the morning and evening. I asked whether he liked the school, he said that’s fine.

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A bad memory of hometown...

Once my brother said - Sometimes even dog's attitude is better than humanbeings, because dog barks on unknowns but human on his own known people. I am writing this about my bitter experience while I visited my hometown. Some people do not want to see the progress of this own colleagues. I visited my hometown after 4 years and half. I called many of my friends for casual drink. Since I visited my hometown after so long time and I visited few of my friends after 8-9 years, I was excited to listen about their progress and even talk about my own progress.

  In the first round the situation was very nice and calm. Everyone was busy on telling his own story, we all happy to listen and share the stories. But, after sometime, some of our friends left and new friends joined. When I got a chance to talk, I gave my business card to the late comers. When I gave my card, one of my friends also gave his business card to new comers. I was expecting congratulation or some inspirational words from the friends. Unexpectedly, one friend in the table started yelling and started using abusive words. He said two f***ers wanna show off that they are successful. He was not much drunk. I did not understand his intention. It's general custom to share phone number and email address giving cards. What was his problem, I didn't understand. I am still thinking, what's his problem.  Read more...

Just fraction of seconds matters!! She got new life...

OMG!! This is really shocking video.

Thanks god.

Thanks that man, because of whom she walked just down side that made her 1/2 second late. She survived.

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